she’s my hot Mahatma ghandi

Okay, as any regular reader of this lovely diarrhea flavored page knows, I’m currently in the middle of reviewing all my jobs and figuring out how my own life experience has spit me out into the backwash of polite society…I’m currently discussing being in a band, and, as that is the job I’ve held the longest, it gets more airtime than my two month stint at McDonalds…makes sense, right? Okay, before we continue (if you’ll recall, our last entry found five young men who called themselves Gladhand about to embark on an epic journey to Malo’s, a rock club out in Aurora to play a show with Violent Youth Assembly and Slugbug), I’d like to, in the spirit of any good reader/master relationship, respond to the requests for more advice oriented columns…

I’m going to be cranking up the advice machine this week…Get your questions ready and send em in. Know, however, that I will not answer your question if it’s any of the following issues:

1. ANYTHING having to do with writing music or the ideals of rock n roll- This is not an area where advice can be given, really…Okay, that’s wrong. Here’s the answer to your question about punk rock, what it’s supposed to mean and how you should go about trying to write a great song: “You need to stop worrying about what other people do/think and figure some shit out for yourself. Not everyone is cut out to write good songs. You may be one of those people.” There…glad that’s settled.
2. Something so obvious that it’s not even worth printing here. “my girlfriend and I are both 18. She went away to college and I think she’s fucking this other guy… I really want it to work out. What should I do?” Come on…she’s DEFINITELY fucking that dude, and you’re shit out of luck. Try to find some underclassmen to bang to get your mind off everything…But don’t text them pictures of your dick. That will land you in jail.
3. Something boring- You already know if your question is boring. Usually, it’s something like “I like this boy, but we’ve never kissed or anything, but I THINK he likes me, although, maybe he likes my friend…should I go for it? Oh, also, we’re both into all the same….” Do you see how boring that is? It’s boring.

Okay, so send in the questions, and I’ll fix you right up. As always, and as mentioned in the first ever BSC post, all questions about felching go straight to the top of the pile and will be answered first. Anyway, back to the rock n roll lifestyle:

We got to Aurora, to Malo’s, which was a little free standing rock club and to me, it seemed way, way cooler than the gateway, just because, well, it was a real show, we were sort of on the road (a little bit, right?) and there were only 3 bands. This wasn’t some cattle call! This was rock, rolling along like it is wont to do, man…Fuck!
The dudes from Slugbug were there already and we got to talking. Chris and I had an instant rapport with those dudes, while our other three guys in our band (the bum, the black sideshow bob and the elderly hippy) were acting kind of standoffish. It was odd. Slugbug assured us that Violent Youth Assembly was the dorkiest band of all time, (no small achievement when on the same bill as Gladhand) and they were right. Without giving too much away, they were three buzzards, slightly punkified, just attempting to jam out, but there were three big problems. The drummer was complete dogshit, their amps were so bad that you couldn’t hear anything but the drums and the guitar player was in a wheelchair. It was awesome.
By this time, I’d already bought and listened to the Slugbug tape and I was, I guess it could be said, a bit of a fan…so I was able to talk to those dudes about their music and stuff, which really broke the ice. I mean, they were only sixteen themselves, so to have a long haired guy in oversized cut off green corduroys, a security guard button up and several medallions tell you how cool your band is must have been a real stone groove for them. Heh.
Okay, let’s see. Long story short, the show sucked…There was NOBODY there. Violent Youth Assembly was hilarious, Slugbug, again was totally pro, and I was actually able to sing this time, which was a nice change of pace. At the end of the night, I got Matt from Slugbug’s phone number because I wanted to get phone numbers and addresses and advice so I could get the pro demo tape treatment for the sweet Gladhand demo that had, up to now, gotten us so many great gigs.
The next day I called him about the tapes. We got to bullshitting and he mentioned that he thought I had a pretty cool singing voice and then mentioned that he and the drummer of slugbug, Rob, were starting this new band with this dude named Dan who was from a band called Flowers (yes, Flowers). They’d tried out a bunch of singers, but no one had been working out…long pause.
“Uh, hey, I’d come out and sing for your band, man…” I said, not really knowing if that’s what he was getting at, and he assured me that it was EXACTLY what he was getting at. He told me that the new band would be doing ska…which was, at the time, a term I had never heard. I said, yeah, what the fuck, cool, yeah… and hung up the phone feeling, for probably the first and last time in my life, like a pretty damn good singer.

Now, this was where shit started to get interesting for me. Matt and Dan and Rob had all been in bands that had played lots of shows, and were part of a scene. I had nothing like that. I didn’t know what punk rock was, or ska, or how Jawbreaker was different from Mother Love Bone. It all just seemed like music to me. I also had long hair and medallions, mind you. SO, when I showed up to hang out with these guys, they had the interesting task of teaching me about punk rock, even though I was already kind of into punk rock by accident. They showed me all about the DIY scene and sort of pointed out that you know, Naked Raygun and Bad Religion are kind of THIS sort of band, while The Farmers and Bitch Magnet really are a whole other thing…It was enlightening. This took place over the course of a few months in which time I learned about guitar sounds, club shows, stage presence, how to actually write songs, what actually made bands interesting and of course, I finally shaved my head. That was a real relief to all the guys in the band.
The first practice was in Rob’s basement and it went well. Pat Ford, the singer of Flowers was down there, kind of sizing me up, and he intimidated the shit out of me. Funny, because now, I’d put his ass in a headlock faster than you can say “Beethoven’s haircut” but at the time, I was very, very new at all this, and easily cowed (I’m actually quite sensitive. The dick jokes are a defense mechanism, really).
After practice, Rob and I went out and got Mexican food and then Dan and I got stoned. It was the beginning of something, all right.

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18 Responses to she’s my hot Mahatma ghandi

  1. planespotting says:

    Matt = Matt Stamps?
    Rob = Rob Kellenberger?
    Dan = Dan Hanaway?

    (question marks because there are three other dudes named Dan, Matt and Rob that have been or are involved in this whole scene as well … heh)

  2. kylewagoner says:

    That guy’s asking about the same thing I was going to ask. We need some fuckin’ last names!

  3. whosharted? says:

    Im pretty sure the answer you guys are looking for is this.
    Matt=Matt Stamps
    Rob= Rob Kellenberger
    Dan= Dan Andriano

    This was the first incarnation of Slapstick. The pre-horn days. The crappy split 7 inch with Tommy Rot era. You guys fail your first exam on the history of Elgin area punk rock. you deserve a free pass though, seeing as how you guys were probably crapping your diapers in pre-school while this shit was going down.

  4. brett says:

    Brendan, what are your thoughts on the lack of appreciation for the Simpsons? I’m overseas in grad school and nobody appreciates it here.

  5. JT$ says:

    I’d love some advice for my chick problem. I met this girl at the Alkaline Trio show in South Florida. We dated for two months and she moved to Las Vegas (she told me she was going to be moving so I knew it was just going to be a fling). Our last weekend together went great and she really wants me to come visit. The problem is: I’m pretty low on cash right now and I don’t know when I’m gonna be able to afford to take a Vegas vacation. How long of a window of opportunity do you think I have to visit her and have her still be interested in me. You know, for boning purposes. That kind of stuff. Thanks in advance, JT

  6. PenguinFelching says:

    Ok, some people are telling me felching is putting a gerbal in their butt. It is not, will you please express the correct meaning of felching? These dumb fucks really need to understand how serious this is.

  7. Mike says:

    this story is amazing since it here is the begining to Slapstick. A story of where Chicago punk scene is amazing…… Also advice. Im joining the Navy…yea yea i know whatever ive heard it all. But ill be in chigaco for two years come april in those two years I want to be amazed by the likes of The Lawrence arms and Trio… is that possible……………………………………………….
    that is my goal while in the windy city.
    you awkwardly are and idol figure to me….. that is huge for you.

  8. Mikey Cigars says:

    Do you read these comments? Just wondering. Let me know. When are you going to be touring again? I need to see you guys live here in Cleveland.

  9. planespotting says:

    To whosharted:

    There were two Dans in Slapstick … but it would make more sense if they started with Dan the bass player instead of Dan the trumpet player.

    Still … ease up on the name/diaper calling. I’m sure acing the first Elgin area punk rock test is probably a notable feat, but saying that we failed it is probably not the worst insult you can throw at anybody.

  10. Nina says:

    I’m amazed at how much you people know about these bands

  11. myassisapipebomb says:

    1. how do i convince my girlfriend to try crazy new sex positions? not boring ones…
    2. if i drunkenly chomped on my girls’ box after sex (no ‘dom) does that count as felching?
    3. how do i send you pictures of my genitals? or of somebo(d)ys genitals.

  12. Joseph says:

    Dan Andriano was in Flowers so he would be the correct one.

  13. dan6385 says:

    Living in Elgin, I’ve been with my fair share of E-town hoes as some people like to say. Since you have you been pretty much all around this great state. What other towns in Illinois would you suggest to find more of these women?

  14. martin* says:

    Right here is my question…I really want to see TLA and/or The Falcon, OK I want to see the self-indulgance tour in New Zealand but it seems that when bands come down to this part of the world the do Aussie but never New Zealand, and believe me New Zealand is way cooler. So serious question….what the fuck do I have to do to get your asses down here?

  15. dv05 says:

    What is the difference between crabs and fleas, if any? Location? Can I say my dog has crabs or is that just scientifically wrong?

    Thanks in advance,

  16. simmons says:

    refering back to the "seven and a half great pet names to call his dong tonight." i counted 8 & 3/4, therefore i think that a list of great pet names is in order. you could think of it as advice for egar girls and gay boys.

  17. Dan T says:

    Hanaway was in Dropjaw during the early year(s) of Slapstick, didn’t come on board til later. First two horn players were neither him nor Pete Anna. Do I pass the Fox River bands test?

  18. Eric says:

    I totally gave some dude with one of those boring stories advice today. He wasn’t asking me for advice, but I figured if I told him how to better his situation then I wouldn’t have to hear about it anymore.

    I advised him to engage in as much felching as humanly possible. Whether or not this solves his particular problems is irrelevant. That’s just damn fine advice for anybody.

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